Your Speech Betrays You

And a little later those who stood by came up and said to Peter, “Surely you also are one of them, for your speech betrays you.”

— Matthew 26:73 NKJV

Here we see Peter betray Jesus, twice before, and a third immediately after this statement by those that were near him.

It is clear by their statement that Peter’s speech was different. He was no longer the fisherman that Jesus called out to follow Him. It is interesting to note that after this statement it says that Peter began to curse and swear, saying I do not know the Man.

While the verses do not specifically point this out, I do believe that by this account, we can say that Peter’s speech was clean up until this point. He was not talking like the others with foul language. To continue in his denial he used foul language to try and be more convincing. It was at this moment that Peter remembered Jesus’ Words prophesying of Peter’s betrayal. It was at this moment that Peter realized what he had done, along with the sin of his mouth.

For some reason Peter was compelled to “fit in” with the crowd. So much so that he even violated his speech to try.

We have to remember that we are not of this world. When we came to know Jesus, He changed us. He changed everything about us, and our speech too is different from the people of the world. As believers we do not use foul language, we do not partake in the hopeless conversations, the foolish jesting, nor the harsh statements that we hear the world say. Without even mentioning Jesus, our speech will expose who we are. It is noticable, or it should be.

When we are among those that do not know Jesus, what are we partaking in? Do we abstain from the sinful things of the world? Do we keep our speech pure?

Are we trying to fit in with the majority for the sake of fitting in? We don’t know exactly why Peter was making such an attempt, but we can speculate some things. It could have been out of fear of persecution. Fearing that he may receive the same punishment as Jesus. What is our reason for compromise? We really need to examine our hearts and allow for the Holy Spirit to guide us in the examination to expose our sin. Compromise comes with a cost. Peter understood this cost once he remembered Jesus’ Words about his betrayal.

We need to be careful to not be seeking approval nor acceptance from the majority. The fact of the matter is this, as a believer in Jesus Christ, we are a minority. Also, as a believer, we cannot hide nor cover up who we are. Jesus has changed us and it is noticable, regardless of our attempts. All we are doing is creating a false witness of what Jesus does in a believers life. For if we compromise for the sake of fitting in, the message is sent that Jesus creates cowards instead of victors.

By compromising to fit in, we are denying Jesus with our actions and any words that go with those actions. Jesus said, “whoever denies Me before men, him also I will deny before My Father in Heaven.” (Matthew 10:33)

I believe this is what Peter was remembering when he realized what he had done. I believe this is why he wept so bitterly following his denial. He had betrayed the One who loves him, who called him out to a greater purpose and now believes he won’t see Him again. Praise G-d for His Love that is everlasting and graceful and full of mercy. G-d knew Peter’s heart of hearts. Peter had that personal relationship with Jesus. So when Jesus returned after resurrecting from the dead, Jesus called out to Peter by way of an angel (Mark 16:7) making it clear the Peter was still included as a disciple, and then also entrusted him with a specific mission “Feed my sheep.” (John 21:13-17). Then, in the following verses (John 21:18-19) Jesus prophesied of Peter’s death that would glorify G-d and He then followed up with “Follow me.”

Peter was forgiven for his betrayal and was still used in a mighty way. While the sin of betrayal was costly, G-d is still the victor and will still forgive, but the question is this:

How deep are our roots in God?
  • Do we have that relationship with Jesus that changes our life to the point that it is even noticed in the way we talk?
  • Do we spend time with Him daily?
  • Are we making the effort to get to know Him?
  • Do we talk with Him in the good times and the bad?
  • How deep is our relationship with Him?
Does our speech betray us? It should.

Not only should it betray us, but our heart should be compelled to use it to glorify Him every chance we have. We need to make sure that our speech is honorable and always testifying of His Truth, not cowering away to fit in. As a believer we will never fit in. This is not our world. Later Peter wrote in 1 Peter 2:11-12,

“I beg you as sojourners [strangers] and pilgrims, abstain from fleshly lusts which war against the soul, having your conduct honorable among Gentiles, that when they speak against you as evildoers, they may, by your good works which they observe, glorify God in the day of visitation.”

Here Peter is a changed man and confident and victorious, and encouraging others to follow in the same victory. Exhorting others to not “fit in” but rather “stand out” in actions and words.

May our speech and actions testify of G-d’s great works in us each day. May we have the courage to stand out for G-d and stand up when called to glorify Him.


As a Marine, foul speech was in me, a part of my life. It was only when I came to Jesus that I was empowered to stop the language in every part of my life. He is the source to draw from for strength in all things. Philippians 4:13

Our language is the one of the hardest things to control and it easily creeps up on us because of how prevalent it is around us. James 3:6 says that our tongue is a fire and it is set on fire by hell. In verse 8 of the same chapter it states that no man can tame the tongue.

This doesn’t sound hopeful, but through G-d filling us with the Holy Spirit, we surrender our tongue to Him. While man cannot tame the tongue, G-d can. We must take every thought captive (2 Corinthians 10:3-5) to the obedience of Jesus Christ. This is to stop ourselves from speaking or acting out, it is seizing it to analyze whether it is good or bad. This provides the opportunity for the Holy Spirit to reveal to us what needs to change in our mind.

After a while it becomes second nature and stopping ourselves through the empowerment of the Holy Spirit becomes easier and easier. While we cannot tame the tongue ourselves, G-d still gives us a choice. When we stop our mouth and discern what is about to be spoken, we can choose to continue or we can choose to cast it away.

As Christians we can never say, “Well, everyone else is doing it.” This is what gets us into trouble. Everyone else is the world and this world is rebelling against G-d and everything about Him.

“We must forget the things that are behind and reach forward to those things which are ahead, and press toward the goal of the high calling of G-d through Jesus Christ our L-RD.”

— Philippians 4:13-14 (paraphrased)

This is how the ebbing away of the old self takes place. We focus on Jesus and we press towards being like Him every day through the empowerment of the Holy Spirit.

Be strong and courageous! — Joshua 1:9

G-d is to be Regarded as Holy

“Then Nadab and Abihu, the sons of Aaron, each took his censer and put fire in it, put incense on it, and offered profane fire before the LORD, which He had not commanded them. So fire went out from the LORD and devoured them, and they died before the LORD. And Moses said to Aaron, “This is what the LORD spoke, saying: ‘By those who come near Me I must be regarded as holy; And before all the people I must be glorified.’ ” So Aaron held his peace.”

— Leviticus 10:1-3 NKJV

The position of priest was to not be taken lightly. There were specific instructions that were to be followed and not deviated from. Nadab and Abihu chose to deviate from those instructions. It cost them their lives.

Moses reminded Aaron of the L-RDs instruction. As a pastor/teacher, we must be careful to follow the L-RDs instructions and not deviate from them. We must always regard the L-RD as holy. We must remember that it is G-d who placed us in the position that we are in. It is also G-d who called us. It is also G-d who brought together the congregation that is before us. Nothing of ourselves. Therefore we must always glorify the L-RD individually in our personal time with Him, as well as before all the people. The L-RD is holy and He must be glorified. We can see an example of this with David before the Israelites in 1 Chronicles 29:1-18. As we glorify the L-RD, the congregation will follow.
G-d is holy and all His decisions are right and true. There are consequences for those that disobey the L-RD and we must hold our peace when someone reaps the consequences for their actions as the L-RD carries out their punishment. He is the L-RD and He is Holy.

Filling the Needs of the Sanctuary

So Moses gave a commandment, and they caused it to be proclaimed throughout the camp, saying, “Let neither man nor woman do any more work for the offering of the sanctuary.” And the people were restrained from bringing, for the material they had was sufficient for all the work to be done—indeed too much.

— ‭Exodus‬ ‭36‬:‭6-7‬ NKJV

There was a need and the people responded. They continued until Moses proclaimed that enough was provided. By the time the proclamation was made, they actually had well over enough material to do what G-d had called them to do.

Where is our heart in service to the L-RD? When the L-RD reveals a need, or when a pastor declares a need within the Church body, how do we respond? Do we, as a Church body, respond to the need until we are told the need has been fulfilled or do we put it off because we say to ourselves, “it will be handled by someone else“?

This offering that Moses was receiving from the people for the sanctuary was a freewill offering. This was not something that was required. The people’s hearts were stirred to give. When a need is declared, does our heart get stirred to do something about it?

In 2 Corinthians 13:5 Paul is writing to the church in Corinth and telling them to examine themselves to check whether or not they are in the faith. He adds, “Test yourselves.

This is not an issue of salvation, but of obedience. Obedience is a by product of faith. Responding to a need is a by product of faith. In James 1:22, James wrote to the Jewish believers “be doers of the Word and not hearers only, deceiving yourselves.” In chapter 2 verse 26 he wrote “For as the body without the spirit is dead, so faith without works is dead also.

If we are not stirred to respond to a need that either the L-RD or a pastor reveals, then we need to examine our heart to see what is wrong? Why is it that we are not responding to the needs set before us? James wrote in chapter 2 verse 18 “…I will show you my faith by my works.” He is stating that faith is demonstrated by our actions.

Christian artist Tobymac has a song called Faith is a Verb It means that faith is not just what you believe, but rather what you do. It causes us to do. It causes action. What are we doing for the L-RD? As a Church body, are we collectively giving and and continuing to give until the L-RD says there is enough? Personally, as an individual, are we asking the L-RD, am I doing enough? Do I need to do more? Has the need been fulfilled?

If the need is still there, as a believer in the Most High G-d, as His child, as one who has been redeemed though our Savior Jesus Christ, it is our responsibility to respond.

What we do is telling of where our faith lies. What is the L-RD revealing to you today as a need that must be met? What are you doing about it? Let us all move forward and respond to the needs of the L-RD until He tells us no more because the need has been met. Let us be found faithful in this as the Israelites were found to be faithful here with providing for the needs of the sanctuary.

G-d’s Testimony in Our Lives

“And you shall put into the ark the Testimony which I will give you.”

— Exodus 25:16 NKJV

What testimony has G-d given you? Have you placed it in the ark within your heart? Have you placed all the things G-d has told you to place there?

The things G-d told Moses to place into the ark were the tablets of stone that were the Ten Commandments, Aaron’s staff that budded, and the omer of Manna.

These things were not only to be placed inside the ark, but when the time was right, they were to be taken out of the ark and placed before the ark to be on display for all to see the Testimony of G-d.

These things are a testimony of G-d’s Word, His Power, and His Provision.

The Testimony that we keep in our hearts, should have these three testaments as well. A proclamation and account of His Word, His Power, and His Provision.

A Testimony is not about us, but about G-d and what He has done. When you give the Testimony of G-d, is it about you or about G-d and what He has done? What do you proclaim? What do you give an account of?

For perspective, there is nothing wrong with giving some history, but how is that history given? Is it a proclamation of where G-d brought you from, or is it a story of things you used to do?

We have to remember, no one needs the details of the sinful past. People just need to hear what G-d has done and where He brought you from. G-d delivered the Israelites from Egypt. We can say, “G-d delivered me from…” and fill in the blanks. That is a proclamation of His Work in us. Too many times we reflect on the past and what we used to do, instead on where G-d has brought us to. People need to hear the latter. They already know what the former is like.

Proclaim today what G-d has done for you and give the Testimony of G-d, not of you.